It's funny how things happen when you least expect it.
When you push forward, they go running away from you. Then you start wondering what went wrong. Even start blaming yourself.
When you pull back, they come running to you. So much so you wondered what you did to make that happen. Even if it was nothing.
Sometimes a steaming pot of lavender tea helps. Take a deep breath and let the minty aroma of the flower soothe away your worries.
And you realise, life's complicated as it is; having less expectations and looking forward to simple joys could be the answer.